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RICH IN #COUPLEGOALS
[4 Traits of the Modern Power Couple]
Welcome to The Quiet Rich, your weekly email for a quiet mind + a rich life. Today I’m redefining the idea of a “power couple.”
CONTEXT
We often think of a "power couple" as two ambitious people with competing careers who are making tons of money. But now, being in the healthiest relationship of my life, I've come to realize:
A true power couple relationship isn’t just about two people hustling for their own dreams. They also hustle for each other’s dreams—whether their partner’s dreams are in a traditional 9-5 job, or nurturing a family, or a creative project, or their own business.
Over the past 4 months, my partner helped me achieve things I never thought possible (which I can’t wait to tell you all about very soon). I can take bolder risks because I know he 100% has my back. My confidence soars. My decision-making improves. My resilience deepens.
And I do the same thing for him and his goals. To me, that’s #CoupleGoals.
Here are 4 signs of a life partner who will champion your dreams:
THE 4 THINGS
They don’t see your success as a threat to their own.
The right partner views every win as a team victory, not a competition. They understand that your climb doesn't lower them—it actually creates more opportunities for both of you.
When you share good news, their first reaction is genuine excitement, not subtle comparison. They celebrate your victories equally as much as (if not more than) they celebrate their own.
I’ve had countless boyfriends who—when I’d come home and tell them I got a big promotion—would complain about the fact that they didn’t get promoted yet.
That zero-sum mindset poisons so many relationships. It’s why I looked for someone who takes a team-first mentality (rather than a me-first mentality).
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They’re an intellectual sparring partner.
Real power couples are also friends. They genuinely enjoy spending time together and chatting about big ideas. When one shares an ambitious goal, the other doesn't immediately shoot it down or point out the risks. Instead, they ask things like:
"How would you approach the first step?"
"What will that look like when it works?"
And their questions ultimately build up your ideas— rather than tear them down.
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They support you with actions, not just words.
A true life partner will roll up their sleeves when you need it most. They create conditions for your success.
During your intense project phases, they might take on more household responsibilities without scorekeeping
They fiercely protect your focus time from interruptions
They actively connect you with people, resources, and opportunities aligned with your vision
Because—back to #1—they genuinely want to see you win.
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They reassure you when you’re in a dark moment.
The best partners subtly keep a mental list of your wins. Why? Whenever your self-doubt creeps in, they can reassure you with specific examples of when you've navigated similar challenges.
Their confidence in you is evidence-based and detailed, making it much harder for your inner critic to dismiss.
CLOSING THOUGHTS
A “power couple” relationship might not be for everyone. But everyone deserves a partner who helps them thrive.
These four traits are the difference between a relationship that stifles your potential and one that unleashes it beyond your wildest dreams.
“But how am I ever going to find someone like that?!” you might be wondering.
Start by becoming that person yourself. If you’d like to attract someone with these traits, you best believe they’re looking for the same traits in you.
The strongest relationships aren't just about finding someone who champions your dreams—they're about becoming that champion for someone else.
Much love,
Jade
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