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Welcome to The Quiet Rich, the #1 email for a quiet mind and a rich life. Today, I’m giving you the 3 tips to be “magnetic” (in business and personal relationships). Scroll down for them. 👇
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CONTEXT
I can't stop thinking about this quote:
"You think you’re an introvert because you like being alone. But in reality you just love being at peace. And you’re actually extroverted around people who bring you peace.” — Zachary Laid
So good, right?
I do consider myself introverted. But I’d argue everyone loves “being at peace.” It’s like we’re drawn (by a magnetic pull) to the people who do that for us.
Here are 3 specific ways to be magnetic (that you can steal):
THE METHOD
☝️ 1. Ask at least 2 questions before giving your opinion. (This shows the other person that you’re actually interested. It makes them feel understood.)
✌️ 2. Repeat back something they said. "I love that you mentioned [x]." "So what I'm hearing is [x]." (When you make them feel heard, they’re way more likely to agree with the next thing you say.)
🤟 3. Put away distractions. Phone off the table. Laptop closed. Earbuds out. (When you give your full attention, it gets noticed. This makes them feel seen.)
WHY IT WORKS
Maya’s famous quote sums it up:
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." — Maya Angelou
At the end of the day, everyone wants to feel understood, heard, and seen.
Until next week,
Jade
P.S. Sending a warm welcome to the newest Archimedes members! This cohort is so inspiring (including founders, CHROs, coaches, tech executives, speakers, even a former Navy SEAL). Can’t wait to meet you all tomorrow.
Missed the October deadline? Good news. You can join the next cohort on November 5th! We’re only opening that one up to 25 people. If you’re ready to become a thought leader, JoinArchimedes.com. (In 3 months, Ben, Colby, and I will teach you our exact system to go viral on LinkedIn and Instagram.)
P.P.S. If you’re new to The Quiet Rich, hello! Learn the 7 things that the quietly rich don’t do in this LinkedIn post. 💰